BE SAFE ON myspace, PLEASE.
I have really enjoyed my journey into MySpace
and have had the pleasure of networking with so many incredible people that I
would never have been able to communicate with in the past but what about Teens?
My 13 year old would like a Myspace of her own. My answer - no!! Definitely NO. But that's because I am an over protective mother who has spent the last 18 eyars listening to her husband's stories about criminals and sexual predators. Those he has supervised as a parole officer and those he has sent back to jail or has had threaten his life. Our life is a little different than most....
We still love the safe kid's email systems that we can track but it limits her....I sit and read blogs and book reviews with her on line....very time consuming for me but my choice....
So how do you as a concerned parent discuss safety on the internet with your kids? Places like MySpace? Some suggestions follow:
Social Networking Sites: Safety Tips for Teens
You've probably learned a long list of important safety and privacy lessons already: Look both ways before crossing the street; buckle up; hide your diary where your nosy brother can't find it; don't talk to strangers.
The Federal Trade Commission, the nation's consumer protection agency, is urging kids to add one more lesson to the list: Don't post information about yourself online that you don't want the whole world to know. The Internet is the world's biggest information exchange: many more people could see your information than you intend, including your parents, your teachers, your employer, the police and strangers, some of whom could be dangerous.
Social networking sites have added a new factor to the friends of friends equation. By providing information about yourself and using blogs, chat rooms, email, or instant messaging, you can communicate, either within a limited community, or with the world at large. But while the sites can increase your circle of friends, they also can increase your exposure to people who have less-than-friendly intentions. Youve heard the stories about people who were stalked by someone they met online, had their identity stolen, or had their computer hacked.
Your Safety's at
Stake
The FTC suggests these tips for socializing safely online:
* Think about how different sites work before deciding to join a site. Some sites will allow only a defined community of users to access posted content; others allow anyone and everyone to view postings.
* Think about keeping some control over the information you post. Consider restricting access to your page to a select group of people, for example, your friends from school, your club, your team, your community groups, or your family.
* Keep your information to yourself. Don't post your full name, Social Security number, address, phone number, or bank and credit card account numbers and don't post other peoples information, either.
Be cautious about posting information that could be used to identify you or locate you offline. This could include the name of your school, sports team, clubs, and where you work or hang out.
* Make sure your screen name doesn't say too much about you. Dont use your name, your age, or your hometown. Even if you think your screen name makes you anonymous, it doesnt take a genius to combine clues to figure out who you are and where you can be found.
* Post only information that you are comfortable with others seeing and knowing about you. Many people can see your page, including your parents, your teachers, the police, the college you might want to apply to next year, or the job you might want to apply for in five years.
* Remember that once you post information online, you can't take it back. Even if you delete the information from a site, older versions exist on other peoples computers.
* Consider not posting your photo. It can be altered and broadcast in ways you may not be happy about. If you do post one, ask yourself whether its one your mom would display in the living room.
* Flirting with strangers online could have serious consequences. Because some people lie about who they really are, you never really know who youre dealing with.
* Be wary if a new online friend wants to meet you in person. Before you decide to meet someone, do your research: Ask whether any of your friends know the person, and see what background you can dig up through online search engines. If you decide to meet them, be smart about it: Meet in a public place, during the day, with friends you trust. Tell an adult or a responsible sibling where youre going, and when you expect to be back.
* Trust your
gut if you have suspicions. If you feel threatened by someone or uncomfortable
because of something online, tell an adult you trust and report it to the police
and the social networking site. You could end up preventing someone else from
becoming a victim.
For More Information
To learn more about staying
safe online, visit the following organizations:
Federal Trade Commission
The FTC works for the consumer to prevent fraudulent,
deceptive, and unfair business practices in the marketplace and to provide
information to help consumers spot, stop, and avoid them. To file a complaint or
to get free information on consumer issues, visit ftc.gov or call toll-free,
1-877-FTC-HELP (1-877-382-4357); TTY: 1-866-653-4261. The FTC enters Internet,
telemarketing, identity theft, and other fraud-related complaints into Consumer
Sentinel, a secure, online database available to hundreds of civil and criminal
law enforcement agencies in the U.S. and abroad.
GetNetWise
GetNetWise is a public service sponsored by Internet
industry corporations and public interest organizations to help ensure that
Internet users have safe, constructive, and educational or entertaining online
experiences. The GetNetWise coalition wants Internet users to be just one click
away from the resources they need to make informed decisions about their and
their family's use of the Internet.
Internet Keep Safe Coalition
iKeepSafe.org, home of Faux Paw the Techno Cat, is a
coalition of 49 governors/first spouses, law enforcement, the American Medical
Association, the American Academy of Pediatrics, and other associations
dedicated to helping parents, educators, and caregivers by providing tools and
guidelines to teach children the safe and healthy use of technology. The
organizations vision is to see generations of children worldwide grow up safely
using technology and the Internet.
i-SAFE
Founded in
1998 and endorsed by the U.S. Congress, i-SAFE is a non-profit foundation
dedicated to protecting the online experiences of youth everywhere. i-SAFE
incorporates classroom curriculum with dynamic community outreach to empower
students, teachers, parents, law enforcement, and concerned adults to make the
Internet a safer place. Join them today in the fight to safeguard children's
online experience.
National Center for Missing and Exploited Children
NCMEC is a private, non-profit
organization that helps prevent child abduction and sexual exploitation; helps
find missing children; and assists victims of child abduction and sexual
exploitation, their families, and the professionals who serve
them.
National Crime Prevention Council ;
The National Crime Prevention Council (NCPC) is a private,
nonprofit organization whose primary mission is to enable people to create safer
and more caring communities by addressing the causes of crime and violence and
reducing the opportunities for crime to occur. Among many crime prevention
issues, NCPC addresses Internet Safety with kids and parents and public service advertising under the National Citizens Crime
Prevention Campaign symbolized by McGruff the Crime Dog and his Take A
Bite Out Of Crime.
National Cyber Security Alliance
NCSA is a non-profit organization that provides tools
and resources to empower home users, small businesses, and schools, colleges,
and universities to stay safe online. A public-private partnership, NCSA members
include the Department of Homeland Security, the Federal Trade Commission, and
many private-sector corporations and organizations.
staysafe
staysafe.org is an educational site intended to help
consumers understand both the positive aspects of the Internet as well as how to
manage a variety of safety and security issues that exist online.
Wired
Safety
WiredSafety.org is an Internet safety and help
group. Comprised of unpaid volunteers around the world, WiredSafety.org provides
education, assistance, and awareness on all aspects of cybercrime and abuse,
privacy, security, and responsible technology use. It is also the parent group
of Teenangels, FBI-trained teens and preteens who promote Internet safety.
Enjoy the internet with your children - it is a very useful tool when used properly. surfing....
What are your thoughts on the issue? I would love to hear them....